What’s the first year on the mission field like?
The first year on the mission field presents a lot of challenges for a missionary. In this interview a couple talks about how they navigated some of these challenges during their first year overseas.
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What's the first year on the mission field like?
When you arrive on the field, the biggest hurdle is language and culture. You'll find after you've been there for six or eight months that you're not having culture shock as much as culture stress. One of the things that helped me the most was when a friend who was from that country but had lived in the United States for a while, just commented to me after we'd bee there two or three weeks and he said, 'You know, people in the United States don't understand that it takes just about a half a day to do life here.' When you first move there you think, I'm not getting anything done, because in the United States you could get a lot more done. And you just can't do it there because everything takes longer. The lines take longer, it takes longer to do the grocery shopping. All of those kinds of things just impact your lifestyle in ways that surprise you.
Most agencies will tell you to take the first year and just work on culture and language, and that is very, very good advice. We should have observed more than we did, but in our impatience to get started in serving, we waited about six months and then we jumped in to serving, so I just wanted to get involved in some things. But I found when I did that, I was stepping on people's toes. I didn't mean to, I didn't know I was doing it, but I was misunderstood. And that caused a lot of hurt. And so, I would have been better just to observe and watch.
Learning about the culture and the language can also be ministry. The first year, I had a language helper who was from a Muslim background, she knew no English whatsoever. And she was so gracious, because in this country where we are, hospitality is a really big thing. So often, she would invite me over for coffee, or tea in the afternoon. This was all part of building relationships and being able to share our faith with them.
With Austin and I going at the age we are, we know ourselves pretty well. After a two hour language study, I would just have to take a nap, read a book, or go for a walk or something, because I was so tired, physically and mentally drained. And sometimes going to the market would do that. You're carrying everything back, sometimes the power's out, you walk up seven flights of stairs to your apartment carrying all the groceries, you put them away, and then you just have to sit down and rest. And sometimes that's all you do for the day. And that's OK. We had to learn to accept our weaknesses and our frailties and not have to be doing something every minute. And to realize that watching and serving and doing little things was a part of getting ready for the long haul.
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May 18th, 2009 at 12:11 pm
Yes! Yes!! Yes!!! And if you are recently married or are adding children in your first years on the field, don’t forget that you are dealing with getting used to more than one culture. . . . the blending of each of the family cultures brought into marriage, the family dynamic changes with each addition to the family and the new culture of the country you are serving in (which sometimes has multiple cultures that make it up). It is easy to get confused with which is which, so ask God to lead you to other ministry couples who have gone on before you . . . ones who will be good resources in keep perspective through the adjustment process.
August 17th, 2009 at 9:58 am
This video has really encouraged me to seek the Lord and trust Him. I went on my first short term mission trip to Austria about one week ago and I absolutely loved it! I am praying and thinking about becoming a missionary and this video has given me some good insight.
January 29th, 2010 at 11:48 am
I think, a lot of mistakes are made by American missionaries because of the attitude they come with. Some of them are not willing to learn but to teach. I have heard comments about stupid culture, language, mentality, wrong ways to raise children….. But it’s the American view. And other cultures have a lot interesting things to learn – how to respect husbands, how to putty train children at age of one, how to dress….. and even how to worship God ( i am talking about national believers). I am missionary myself to a muslim country,but i am national too.And I came to Christ through American missionaries. Those who are willing to learn,do great things for the kingdom.